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給一個外國人的關于抉擇的建議，英語不難，嘗試自己去看懂吧1 f. C% M8 \5 I
Firstly, recognise any fear you have related to the decision. Fear of failure, of what others think, of hardship. Fear is almost completely always overrated - it evolved in a time when sabre toothed tigers could dine on our bones and when asking a pretty villager out could get you killed by her father's tribe. Nowadays the downside for most actions is negligible but our instincts are 40,000 years behind. So fight hard to identify and ignore your fear.; H/ [+ A6 J) c. z5 E6 S% U* D
( Q) s% m" ]7 K" u/ \7 D' BSecondly, make sure you have enough information but not too much. Colin Powell popularised a rule here - aim for between 40% - 70% of the information you need to make a decision. Too little and you don't know what you're doing. But crucially - and often overlooked - too much and you're wasting time and someone else may beat you to it. Paralysis is a decision too, albeit an awful one.
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Thirdly, once you've thought it out - trust your gut. If you're not sure, find a coin and assign heads to one option, and tails to another. Flip the coin. Now, how do you feel about the choice that was made? Whether you feel relieved or horrified will tell you what your instincts know. ~+ B& s. D7 Z; y- k5 d p5 g/ f6 L2 x
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Finally, do it. Most people fail at this step; don't be one of them. Good luck.
$ f1 U4 t; t* W. L3 ^摘自 https://www.quora.com/How-should-I-go-about-making-a-hard-life-decision 時間 23/03/16 |
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